PSA: as much as we love red/black flag characters please know that this behavior is not cute or romantic outside of fictional stories. if you or someone you know is experiencing this please do know, that help is there if you so need it. provided is a link with national hotline numbers available in the USA for victims: https://victimconnect.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/Full-Hotline-List.pdf
if you happen to be in a different country and need assistance just drop a message and i can help you research💗